Did you get T91 or T91R remote. Just asking as some sources say that only the R-version will work.
The fuse that you are looking for is number seven in the dash fuse panel. If you have LHD vehicle, you find the fuse panel behind the small storage compartment left from the steering wheel. Removing the box takes some force, but it's still much easier to remove/re-apply this box than the glove box in the RHD vehicles.
The manual shows the fuse layout and how to access those. So the one you are looking for is "Air conditioning, heating, recipient of the wireless remote control for auxiliary heating, selector lever of the automatic transmission", which is the above mentioned fuse 7.