Thanks aladins78, that's helpful, but can you advise if I'd be ok taking the bypass relay feed from the boot aux socket (with a kill switch for when not in use). I do run a three way fridge in the boot from the aux socket while I'm towing.
Take your point on the time involved. I did swear I'd never do another after the C Class, and to be fair have paid the pro's for two since. But I'm a bit of a recession victim at the moment.....
Actually, I do work in Hertfordshire during the week, so you might not be too far away. I'm being quoted £414 for supply and fit of a swan neck detachable (not sure which make), which is £240 more than buying a Witter detachable and fitting myself. Is it worth a chat? (Not sure of the protocols here re phone numbers etc)