I feel like it would be better to adjust the existing Ali cable harness and connect it to the gateway than cutting into the original harness in the car. If you really want to go this way, I recommend using the CAN bus lines behind the infotainment unit (on passenger side). There is way easier access to the cables so you will not break your back while doing it and also there is smaller risk of damaging wires important for safety.
The pin 8 on Ali harness is CAN low and the pin 9 is CAN high (same thing on the gateway), if that's what you are looking for. But probably good idea to double check, if you have the scope. If you have lab power supply, you can also try to put 28V (load dump - norm VW80000) into the Ali module to make sure it doesn't burn. If it does, it's better it happens on your work table than in the car 😃