Ok, so I spoke to my dealer today and asked for the following.
Fogs to be used for coming/ going home feature
Dial Staging
auto unlock when ignition off
window open/ close with key fob
alarm chirp with lock/ unlock
anti-hijack (locks over 10mph)
The dealer came back to me and told me the only two they are able to do is the window open/ close with fob and anti-hijack. Alarm Chirp can apparently be done through the car media system but is only recommended for Europe (WTF?)
They had no idea what dial staging was, told me only the dipped beams can be used for the going/ coming home feature and the auto unlock the ignition off is also a non existent.
Guess I'll have to buy an EML and use Carista when I get the car!