So tries to set up theHeadlights for European driving go the menu and it won’t let me do it  it says not available   Is there a work around 

I think that only works if you have LED headlamps.  I expect to have to put stickers on my SE Tech ordinary headlamps when I go to France.  That's if things settle down over there soon - a new neighbour, whose parent's live in Chantilly North of Paris, says there's been a lot of disruption recently with strikes being called here and there without much warning.

before I moved here permanently I used the uk setting but with the height adjustment set to its lowest point, never stopped or flashed!!