hi guys im getting some xenon depo headlights from wingmirrorman and i was wondering where everyone gets there ballasts and bulbs from ?

ive had a look on ebay but they all seem to be cheap £30 kits

In my experience they all do the same, regardless of the prices. The wing mirror man lights state max of 35w but will run 55w without issues. Look for a 35 or 55w slim ballast d2s hid kit. I used some canbus cancellers aswell (capacitors) which helped with stopping flickering of the bulbs married with some 55w 4300k bulbs. 4300k is the best option to look oem colour and brightness.