probably the most asked question in the world

hi there to all,

just joined a few days ago, im not usualy into forums im a bit of a noob at this. i was planning buying a octy mk2 vrs and evrytime i googled various things on ebay about them this site popped up and the community seemed to have a good knowledge on the cars so seems like a good time to ask the obvious....

which exhaust system should i buy? ive seen various offerings from piper, milltek, jetex and blueflame.:confused:

my car is supposed to be a family machine to get my missus to work and shopping etc so i dont want it to be too loud [ ive got a mk2 golf im doing g60 conv. on for all the noise i need to make] i just want more flow and a nice sweet note.

ive had apr fully loaded ecu trial:rofl:, which i intend to get in full this month or next [loved it] and ive fitted the obligiatory forge blow off plate.

any ideas as to which system i should go for? any replys much apprecited cheers