when i first get in mt car and start up it shakes a lot while sai is opererational lol is this normal

Is the pump noisy? usual it's a sign the pump has a few split rivets and is leaking.

When was the throttle body last cleaned?.

i dunno when was last cleaned

I found when I first had mine, that cleaning the throttle body made a huge difference to general running and especially when the car is cold when the sai is functioning.

As an aside, have you tried disconnecting any of the corrugated plastic hoses at the pump to see if water is present in the system?, this can be an indication of a failing combi valve on the engine, allowing condensation to develop and fill the pump.