I am having terrible problems fitting udders to my car any step by step guides or help, or am i just stupid because i have been told this shold be a 5 min job. i can get one in i think a finished picture of what it should look like would help and the other wont go in the hole ( no funny comments please) so any help would be great

More than likely the weight of the wheel is pushing the bush to one side preventing the udder sliding in. Make sure the vehicle is secure and get an assistant to rock the wheel front to rear whilst you push it in.