Having moved from a octavia iv to the enyaq there seems to be a few things missing from the my skoda app.

On the opening page there's only three items I am sure there was more info when I had the octavia.

The honk and flash option is missing from the map. What am I doing wrong or what do I need to activate?

Have you solved the issue???

It looks similar to what I'm experiencing
https://www.briskoda.net/forums/topic/538725-myskoda-app-missing-vehicle-data-on-new-elroq-only-remote-parking-visible/

no didnt get any help sadly and the facebook groups were just full of sarcasam

My understanding is that "honk and flash" isn't in the app unless your Enyaq is on software version 5.

Mine is on 4 and I don't have it.

To be honest I did have it on my old Skoda Superb, but I never used it. It's certainly not something I'd risk the potential pain of updating to version 5 for.