After some devastating news i am really giving thought to letting the octy go

With the ins every month and my ocd with it , i think its just no needed

I was thinking its got to be good for least 4k with new powdered black gloss spiders

I know some will doubt but im so messed in the head with the news i certainly wont be in rush

And neither really be in the situation to swap bit or strip audio

So being the bbs's are as new surly 7-900

And audio will stay

Id just put as 5k and leave and see

Its just a really **** time

So please dont bitch

If any dnt agree just dont go to far

My life has been turnt upside down and this is just one thought that may help simplify things

I just wanted to take this time to jot it down so its not in my head

Thanks

Hey Lloyd, I dont know what it is but I am sure I am correct in saying we all feel for you chap.

Thanks mate, i know a odd place for support but it was a idea in my head that i wanted to put down on paper :(

Sounds like what ever is going on is way more important than a car!

Yes cars become important and part of us but losing them is nothing compared to other life changing events!

Im still fairly new to the site in but im sure everyone can understand and only sympathise mate!

Thanks mate

My wife and family is all i can think about it really is

Just so unreal :(

As stunning as your car is Lloyd, it can always be replaced.

Can only echo whats already been said, sounds like something far more serious going on in your life and i sincerely hope it all works out, whatever it may be.

If you ever feel the need to blow off some steam, your brisky friends are only a pm away.

Still the best MK1 octy on here btw :-)

Another thanks ...

I love the car

But i love my wife more, and she needs all the help and support i can give

And make things as easy as i can

And financially my car can be a burden

Its not officially going , but as said, it was 1 of the many thoughts on my mind, and now its went to paper

Thanks again my briskies.... I know its not maybe the official place

But the mk1 forum is where im known and know

Thanks for posting

Hey my friend.....

A car is just a car when life has more important priorities to focus on.

You can not turn back life and important times that is a one way trip. You can always bring back another car if you need to later.

Take care

Thanks mate

It really is crap times :(

Sorry to hear dude, hope everything pans out ok mate

So do i mate, and thanks

Just want it sorted and then begin treatment and get her back to herself

Just shocked and its hit me for six

Flog it, its a lump of metal. Concentrate on what matters.

I know mate, its just such a shock

Unless your news requires you to raise immediate cash try to take a big breath and step back from doing anything in shock that you may regret later. Been there, done that :(

Talk to your friends, those you trust, and use them as sounding boards to talk through your ideas & feelings. Remember you're human too and you're allowed to be upset.

It's clear that many know, like & respect you here so let some steam blow. If anyone tries to step out of line I'm sure the crowd will arrange an appropriate kicking ...

Regards, Mike

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Thanks mate, the odd post is nice to read, its just such scary thoughts

A simple happy life just upturnt by a **** nasty diesease

Just trying to get my head round it is seeming impossible

Hearing so many good stories about people living happy after

But it just all weighs on your mind

Thanks mate, the odd post is nice to read, its just such scary thoughts

A simple happy life just upturnt by a **** nasty diesease

Just trying to get my head round it is seeming impossible

Hearing so many good stories about people living happy after

But it just all weighs on your mind

As posted above, unless you really need the cash for something else quickly, then just put it in the garage and take a step back to support your family.

Remember that at some point you will need something that will keep you sane and help you through this crap too (trust me, been there done it and still doing it, although it might not be the exact same situation as yourself).

I did also think that, at the moment its like time has stopped at the momeny

Awaiting the mri to see if spread

Then surgery

Then treatment

She is only 33 :(

Its crap

Just don't rush into something you might well regret, especially as getting shot of the car isn't important in itself

I'm so sorry to hear your news mate

Just remember its only a car !!

Your wife and family need you and your OCD with them !! If the cash is going to help take some stress off her for paying bills then that's what you gotta do !!

If you need anything just shout buddy its times like these you also need support !! She is young and fit so can fight back

All the best buddy

Clive

Hope all is well with you and yours mate. I havnt spoken to you much or ever met but feel for you. As said your car as nice as she is is still only a car, can always be replaced if needed mate. If you do decide to get rid then I'm sure you will do what's best...it's obvious how much time and effort has been put into your motor and when it comes down to it that could be done again.

Hope it all gets sorted buddy.

Thanks mate,

I hear so many stories of people getting threw it and living long lifes

Its just getting your mind to realise that and ignore what you associate with the word

I cant say anything new really. i am sure you are in all of our thoughts and prayers. Doctors can work miracles nowadays. Dont get downhearted, it sounds harsh, but you need to stay strong for your family at a time like this. Not easy i am sure.

Good luck with it all fella.

I have to take a minute to say...

The responses from you guys have been amazing

There really is some seriously nice folk on this forum

Thank you

Fingers crossed the tables change in your favour soon Lloyd

I dont know your situation or haven't been first hand with what your facing as im only a young spunker

but all i can say is breathe

as hard as it may be forget the car and try keep everything else in one place

good luck buddy...

Lloyd and Vic the whole Brisky folk are here if you need us.