Hi everyone. I am trying to remove the iso pins from the connector plug that goes to my stereo in my car, but when I pull them out a little, with the help of a paper clip, they are getting stuck. I think it’s because of a little yellow terminal locking bar that’s on the side, but it is pushed flush into the connector itself, so there isn’t anything to grab on to pull it out with, so how do I remove that bar?

Does anyone know?

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