You've got yourself in a pickle, Keith.
Warning: what I'm about to write may annoy you. Take a deep breath and read it carefully, though. It's intended to help you, not "get at you".
We understand that you have a problem writing. You need to understand, though, that when you write, people have a problem reading it. It might not be your fault, but it's not their fault, either.
It really is difficult to understand you when you don't leave any gaps, when you use strange phrases, when you use punctuation that people don't understand, and so on. Just a small example: a single-dot-followed-by-space (full stop) has a specific meaning, that we all immediately understand, without even thinking. A row of space-threedots-space (an ellipsis) has a completely different meaning, that again we all understand. We really don't automatically know what nospace-twodots-nospace means, though. And therefore our mental process of reading comes crashing to a stop. We can work it out, sure - but that takes time and effort. It's not a matter of "grammar rules", it's a matter of what you write coming over as a dense mass of unrelated word salad. And the whole post seems to be said in one breath, which - strangely - makes the reader feel out of breath, too.
OK, so you find it difficult, but unfortunately it comes over as bloody rude. If you walked up to a stranger in a pub and spoke like that, two things might happen: at best, they just would't understand; at worst, they'd punch you in the face. We can guess that that's not what you intend, but you need to realise that.
You are taking people's comments as negative, when for the most part they have simply said, in a notably polite way, that they can't understand you. You've then gone on at enormous length on stuff that actually has no bearing whatsoever on the problem you have with the towbar. Yes, you're expressing your frustration - but that becomes frustrating for the readers!
I hope you can get your towbar sorted.