I think the problem is that drivers are used to seeing the main beam being switched off and seeing the resultant drop in light everywhere. Then when they don't see the massive drop in light everywhere, they think you haven't dipped the lights (even though the matrix has dimmed the light right in front of the other car).

 

I've been flashed a few times and yet I've driven past friends and the did say that the matrix didn't cause them any issues.

 

On the other side, the standard LED (non matrix) headlights are pure crap by comparison having driven them back to back plenty times.

Actually the problem is problem ones not doing what they should. Ones working correctly are coming along the road and plenty of us have Matrix lights.  Not all stupid.